@Dawn
Thanks, I will read all of this.
@Ryan
I was not satisfied with the result so last nite I have started all from scratch and remebered something you pointed out about the message being a warning and that the cert being read at startup. After some cleanup and reboot I finally got it to work with a self signed.
At some point you get so deep in the work that you start doing stupid mistakes and don't see clearly ... !
Still, I do not understand the point of having non encrypted open ports for sybcluster to work. When trying to secure your environment you try not letting backdoor open for anyone to use ... !